fixed xml error with iChats

property list. Using it, instead of bad-client

add SystemBus initialisation in try:
to catch cases when system bus is not present

removed i18n imports from zeroconf/connection files

that zeroconf connection should be used.
Create the neccessary config values if zeroconf
account is not present

removed some debug messages

added proper dispatch signals so contacts get shown
fixed some errors with roster data

(though something is wrong with it)

changed contact index to name@hostname