we were sending inactive chatstate because focus-out is called when we ask the context menu. now with some pointer and geometry stuff that is fixed

we can now edit sub-options

if the previously edited cell path is the same

EditGroupsDialog no longer uses gtkdialog.run() but an emulation so we do not run another mainloop and leave the main mainloop waiting [which results in disconnection] rest will follow

model.get_value(iter, X) -> model[iter][X] for roster_window.py (takes less code space so cleaner code)