msg window alignment is back now with corrected top padding so tab does not touch the window wm titlebar

TODO: fill animated folder with his emoticons file

commit first part of special notifications (aka buddy pounces). at last make Choose Sound dlg a class; TODO: actually write to config user settings as well as take those into account [jim++]

fix a TB in trayicon menu functionality. fix varname which lead to bad functionality for single message [we were doing new message] and also fix functionality for it, add %s in strings and not +, use gtkgui helper function

now we can save preset messages from change status message dialog. we also use ComboBox and not ComboBoxEntry because the first shows clearer that it is not editable. fixes #1407

preferences window is created on the fly like every other window (well apart from FT [TODO for that]); this is good as we do not want such window to sit in memory; also fix some border width and spacing in prefs window

nes DataForm design that allow each widget on each line to have different size (it means I remove the gtk.Table). Fixes #1633