Resource conflict dialog has now a timeout. Fixes #4590

This kind of work will come after 0.13

This is the first commit of a long serious of cleanup commits.
Simple testcase included to test the slightly enhanced Interface dispatcher.

Looks like I screwed up the renaming.

The latter one has to execute the modules and does not work all the time.

(requires you to re-run ./autogen.sh)

It is more consistent to have this code closer to the xmpp protocol handling.