Fixes #9525

Clicking on a new message notification in the status tray didnt open the chat

Fixes #9503

This reverts commit 108b0878

Fixes #9096

- Also attempt to fix #9446

This event is used to shutdown the roster if we quit, it destroys all windows.

This should be run last because other objects like the ChatControl need a reference to the window to shutdown properly

This makes it possible so text can be copied from the conversation textview with other keyboard layouts than english

Fixes #9471

Fixes #8362

This seems to be an old codepath, currently there is no need to redraw a contact on selection change

Fixes #9496

Fixes #8275

When there are no bookmarks on the server the join groupchat menu
was disabled, preventing the user to open the join groupchat dialog

Fixes #9491

get_contact() returns also a contact if only the bare jid matches,
which for private messages is the groupchat contact object.

This makes it easier to retrive and store values

Fixes #9465

- Check the from attr on the delay node to determine if its a user timestamp or from the server
- Dont use user timestamp for sorting
- Record the user timestamp in additional data so its saved to the database

Fixes #9444

Fixes #9472