and cleaner output for vcards

a. JID is static and jargonish
b. JID is visible now via tooltip and of course via vcard [where it can also be copy pasted]
c. status message has more info about the real person and his current mood so it is logical to have that in banner and remove jargon of JID

(Tooltip)

left and right margin set to 1 for textviews in tabbed caht and group chat [so text is not jammed in the right and in the left]

popup menu on item from 'not in roster' group

if peer doesn't do chat state do not keep respect that; overcome jep violations for chat state transitions