implement popups for various events (mostly new messages) as Psi does them
we list for what events the user wants to have popup window that will hooked to the place when systray icon is [and if systray is off, then maybe ask the user where he wants them?] or just default to right bottom of the screen
if we implement that, we also ask the user to choose between on new message to popup the chat window or to popup a window that will say new message and will be the popup described above